ક્યાં લઇ જાય છે આ ૨૧ મી સદી ????

IS THIS 21ST CENTURY ???? WHERE IS HUMAN BEING GOING???

                       શું બહાર થી સ્વસ્થ માણસ  અંદર થી પણ એટલોજ સ્વસ્થ હોય  છે??

I was just wondering today and sitting remembering about my school life and school exams when i
just remembered the most common essay that used to be asked in Gujarati"હું માનવ માનવી થાઉં તો ઘણું ".
and then millions of thoughts just went through.
What i thought was .."Are we really losing our culture,our love,our respect?".
"Are we really that cruel?"
"Are we so dejected and envy that we ourselves rise question on us?"
"Is 21st century  this much bad?"


On one hand we talk about country is not doing anything to the scams of kalmadi,koda,raja,pawar,etc....but on other hand have you ever seen inside yourself .."who really you are inside".Have you been always honest.We want to say but dont want to do anything.We see girls and boys trying to be remain fit.boys wants muscular body like  sylvester stallone while girls want so called 0 figure ....and reason for it..To get into colourful world, to remain healthy,to attract opposite people,to show the best in themselves........... " you are healthy from outside but what about your inner devils of envy, fake,jealous,anger??....


"શું બહાર થી સ્વસ્થ માનસ અંદર થી પણ એટલોજ સ્વસ્થ છે??? ના બાપા ના આ તો ૧ક મુખોટો છે આ ૨૧ મી સદી ના માનવ નો બાકી આ ક્યાં માનવ કહેવાને પણ લાયક છે??માનવી તો બહુ દુર ની વાત છે .


On one end they take plans for diet but dont forget to drink a large vodka mixed with some water in parties,they say their son respects each and everyone but they dont know same son goes and smokes hukkahs and cigarettes .They eat pizzas and burgers but still on other hand praises ancient India's traditional YOGA .They spend millions of rupees on various of unwanted things and worst things..but would never buy a thing for their mother or father.Even animals have love for their parents then after all we are human beings..THEN WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN US AND ANIMALS????? We say we are in 21 st century but then ,


why do we still believe in souls and ghosts?


Why do we stop our car when a cat crosses us?


why do we eat curd when we go to give exam?


We say we are in 21st century and take proud of being in contact with each and everyone on facebook and twitter ..but do you really know who lives in your neighbouring house?? We become happy seeing likes on our facebook status but we never care whether other people will like what are we saying or not.



સાચેજ ખબર નથી પડતીઓ   કે આ ૨૧ મી સદી છે કે કોઈન ગૂંચવાડો એક બાજુ આપડે સંસ્કાર બતાવ્યે છે તો બીજી તરફ  કુસંસ્કાર (In your language modern culture am not opposing modern culture but am saying its methods are wrong).ક્યારેક વિજ્ઞાન ના વિચારોમાં  તો ક્યારેક જુનવાણી વિચારોમાં ...............


ક્યાં લઇ જાય છે આ ૨૧ મી સદી ?????


નથીં ખબર પડતી  આ  કયો  ઝમાનો  છે ,

છે  તો  ૨૧  મી  સદી  પણ  એમાં  પણ  કંઇક  ગૂંચવાડો  છે ..

એક બાજુ પિઝ્ઝા બુર્ગેર  નો ક્રેઝ છે ,

તો બીજી તરફ યોગ માટે પ્રેઝ છે ..

સિગારેટ ,દારૂનું કરતા આ સેવન ,

સાંજ પડે તો કરે છે વાત about life in heaven

સવાર પડશે એટલે કરશે મોર્નિંગ વોક અને વાતો  ડાયટની, 

પણ વરસાદ પડે એટલે મો  તરત ભરાઈ જાય  ભજીયા ના સ્વાદ થી 

નથીં ખબર પડતી  આ  કયો  ઝમાનો  છે ,

છે  તો  ૨૧  મી  સદી  પણ  એમાં  પણ  કંઇક  ગૂંચ વાડો  છે ..

મોંઘી હોટેલ માં ખાઈ ને આપે મોંઘી   ટીપ waiter ને  , 

પણ શું કદી ઘરે  કીધું છે  ખાવાનું  સ્વાદીસ્ત  હતું એવું mummy ને  

દીકરા ને હમેશા  કરશે  બેટા બેટા,

પણ પિતા ને કીધું છે કદી કે કેમ બેઠા છો  છેટા?.


ગામ આખા માં કેહતા ફરશે બેટી બચાવો,

પણ પોતાનીજ પુત્રી ને આપશે દુનિયા ભરની  સજાઓ .

 નથીં ખબર પડતી  આ  કયો  ઝમાનો  છે ,

છે  તો  ૨૧  મી  સદી  પણ  એમાં  પણ  કંઇક  ગૂંચ વાડો  છે ..

આમ તો વરસ આખું  વ્હોરસે ભ્રષ્ટાચારના પૈસા ,

પણ રજામાં તરત જશે જાત્રાધામ વહેલા  

પછી  ભલે હોઈ પાસે  સાઈકલ કે ગાડી ,

પણ કરશે પ્રાથના જયારે બિલાડી આવે આડી .

science ની હવા મારતા પોહચી ગયો ચંદ્ર પર ,
પણ ૧ રમત ના પરિણામ માટે શ્રદ્ધા ૧ octopus પર??

 નથીં ખબર પડતી  આ  કયો  ઝમાનો  છે ,

છે  તો  ૨૧  મી  સદી  પણ  એમાં  પણ  કંઇક  ગૂંચ વાડો  છે ..

internet અને mobile થી કરશે એક બીજા સાથે 24 કલાક  chat 

પણ પ્રેમ નો એકરાર કરે તો કેહ્સે sorry I dont believe in that   


facebook ,twitter  પર રહેશે આખી દુનિયા સાથે uptodate    ,
પણ સામાજિક પ્રસંગ માં આવશે દરેક વખતે  late  


દેખાડાના જમાના માં નામશેષ થઈ રહી છે લાગણીને હૂંફ
જીભ માં જોવા મળશે આવકારો પણ દિલ માં મળશે જાકારો

 નથીં ખબર પડતી  આ  કયો  ઝમાનો  છે ,

છે  તો  ૨૧  મી  સદી  પણ  એમાં  પણ  કંઇક  ગૂંચ વાડો  છે ..

નફરતના અંધારા ને છુપાવા પહેરે છે પ્યારના મુખોટા,
ઝેર  ની લાગણી ને છુપાવા પહેરે છે અમૃતના મુખોટા,
પોતાની પેહચાન છુપાવા પહેરે છે modern culture ના મુખોટા,
હારેલી ઝીંદગી અને વિખરેલા સબંધોથી  બચાવા આ ૨૧મી સદીનો  માનવી પહેરે છે  આવા અનેક મુખોટા


"૨૧ મી સદી ના સંગે  અને modern culture ના રંગે વિશ્રાય રહી છે લાગણી 
છેલ્લે કેહવું છે પાર્થ નું હે માનવ હવે તો થા તું માનવી"

And so this 21st century makes us alone all alone just due to culture and way of life we are living.........


    પાર્થ આર  સંઘાણી 

   ASPIRING FINDER

From my childhood i have travelled to various places and various places have made me travel.currently am in college....but what i miss , are my those wonderful 12 years of my life.They were in my school life in my old city,my old town,in those lush green grounds,among the  school buildings,along the small streets,among bicycles.Those were my best days.But due to my dad's job ,now i have to get settle in this new city.I left my happiness in the old town behind and now this huge city is making me lonely.I feel all alone in this new city.......................what i am afraid is of my loneliness ............ 

"YOU ALWAYS FEEL NOSTALGIC FOR YOUR OLD DAYS"
                       AM ALL ALONE  

It was a beautiful night ,

with buildings at height.
The new city had made its mark , 
And i still thought of that old town left behind in dark,
It just came and gone,
while I was all alone.
As i marked myself in this new city,
I myself felt pity.
Those days have gone,
AND am all alone,
Among the beautiful roads,

Am all alone among the huge malls,

Am all alone midst the heavy traffic,

Am all alone in search of those hectic,

Am all alone though am at home, 
Am all alone in the garden full of lawns. 
Am all alone seeing girls giggling along the roadside,
Am all alone seeing dudes laughing along the roadside,
Am all alone seeing couples holding hands along the roadside,
Am all alone seeing children playing along the roadside,
Am all alone in search of those old days, 
Am all alone in search of those real friends,
Am all alone in search of those stupid fun,
Am all alone in search of those hang outs , 
AM all alone when i miss my old days left far behind the bay.
AM all alone when i miss those each and every case 

And SO AM પાર્થ ALL alone as i miss my each and every day..

And SO I FEEL ALL ALONE IN NEW CITY AND NEW LIFE..

AND SO AM ALL ALONE ,LONELY,DEPRIVED, DEJECTED,AND FULL OF ENVY REMEMBERING THOSE OLD DAYS AND TOWN.This is really the most complicated thing for me .I always become nostalgic for those days of my life which have passed ,which has now no connection.I am in search of my old school life in this new city.--------

 -ASPIRING FINDER

(પાર્થ સંઘાણી)

''ASPIRE TO FIND SOMEONE SOME NEW FRIENDS SOME NEW LIFE AND YOU WILL NEVER FEEL ALONE"

MOTHER I LOVE YOU

'

"when god made earth the best thing he made was mother dear mother ....love you..."

 I found my way out of each and everyone,just to reach the ultimate place of peace for every child, the real temple for each person,the ray of hope for a failure, the place of happiness for a successful person, the wooden stick for a handicapped and the sea for a river which is called MOTHER’S ARMS.

I hugged my mother like never

Wept as am not going to meet forever,

It was like my life going to an end,

But amidst the sea I found a helping hand,

Time flies like sand,

But the peace in mothers arm is never going to end,

No matter how old u become,

No matter how mature u feel,

No matter how rich u become,

No matter how respected u feel,

U r always going to long for that place on land,

That is the peace in mothers arms which is never going to end….

I hugged my mother tight,

As I wanted only her to be in my sight,

I hugged my mother close,

So I cant see the world full of sinful source,

I hugged my mother and kissed her on cheeks,

Just to tell my heart I have found god for which world creeps       

I cried like hell after seeing her,

As till now I was away from her,

The first day of my in school,

Taught me life’s first real rule,

And so I hugged my mother like never

Wept as am not going to meet forever,

Ahan yes this were my feelings at that time. For me my mother was everything, In early mornings even if she moves away from my eyes for a moment I used to cry high. For me my day used to start with my mothers face and used to end also by seeing her face. That very first day of my school showed me the real truth of life and that was the love of every child for his mother.

About ME................

You know what its pretty hard to define me . :-) i am the one who can be your friend and can be your worst enemy if you want . . . . But i am what i am and i dont care what you think about me because if a person starts thinking what other person thinks about you then he is the biggest loser in life . . .
Another thing i would like to mention is that life is not a bed of roses but life is to go and pluck the roses to make it bed of rose . . . Sometimes you can get injured by the thrones . . . But that would only make you strong to find the real way to live . . :-) {@}
I am not any advisor or any certain baba ranchoddas(Rancho of a bollywood film)  :-) who tries to implement his thoughts but am a young just turnd 18 yrs guy . . .doing B TECH . . . In software engineering . . And i still think one should follow his heart but before following the heart the person needs to fulfil the wishes which brain wants . :) better watch rock on . . Well leave it.
ok lets have an official introduction"I AM Your ASPIRING FINDER " well hey u know we always had dream from childhood i too had certain dreams ....
First thought woukd be a cricketer like other billions of children think about...when in primary section.....
Then thoughts came and came actor .... As i got a role in school drama but friends its not easy to act in real life i cant have fake smile on my face ,i always become hyperactive when i see fake ppl.....my frnds tell me that just have a cup of tea and popcorns and see what is happening around but 4me i cant smell the injustice and that maks me sometimes out of control ....but when i explored the world .../well i have nt yet but only a sort of\:-\i came to know that in this world one should keep their mouths sealed........or be ready to fall down"the time to do good for others has gone..do your own job and shut up..:-):-.".........
then i thought i could be a writer, poet....because of a lil writing skills i have but .....thats not all ....then my dad explained me"that in life studies are like clothes and ither activities are like ornaments.....one can wear clothes alone but cant go with ornaments alone.... "and so i landed in so called engineering .....
you know sun is turning grey at height......morning is turning to shining outrageous noon...and this has brought a lot of changes in me.......i wuld be now eligible to vote..yo..............................?citizen of my country... Another person to make his debut in the game called LIFE and now i cane ti know its pretty tough so SALUTE TO MAH PARENTS....luv u and also to my sis.and frnds....
well i feel we all should have an aim today am in hostel and always missing my home my school life my heart beats each time,reminding me of those early morning dew drops of my life which passed in my childhood...my school ....have left the city in which grew...i still crave for it.... I still....but it goes on u need to adjust according to situations.....so in short i would say
lIFE DOES NT MEAN TO FIND ENEMY BUT IS FEEL THE FRIENDS AND THAT DIALOUGE"LIFE IS TOO SHORT SO BREAK THE RULES LIVE FREELY KISS SLOWLY AND LOVE TRULY ITS BEAUTIFUL-